Dr. Sandra E. Cohen

INSIDE OUT 2: A Trauma Trigger of Being Alone Brings on Anxiety

INSIDE OUT 2: A Trauma Trigger of Being Alone Brings On Anxiety

An old trauma trigger will bring on Anxiety. And, for Riley Anderson in Kelsey Mann’s Inside Out 2, it’s her fear of being alone. So, it isn’t just the new emotions of puberty that make Anxiety now take center stage and push away Joy, Sadness, Fear, Anger, and Disgust into the “Back of Mind.” Not…
MAN Versus BEAR? Women’s Traumas & Shattered Trust Why The Bear Wins

MAN Versus BEAR? Women’s Traumas, Shattered Trust & Why The Bear Wins

Man Versus Bear went viral. Even though a controversy rages, let’s be clear about why the Bear wins. The Bear gets the vote because of the past traumas and shattered trust of too many women. Those women have experienced childhood trauma, physical abuse, sexual abuse, and later sexual traumas, mostly perpetrated by a man that…
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DO YOU WANT TO CURE FOMO? Quitting Scrolling Isn’t Enough

Do you have FOMO? Or is it low self-esteem and “social comparison” anxiety? Do you want to cure FOMO? If it’s anxiety because your self-esteem is shaky, just quitting scrolling on social media isn’t enough. You wouldn’t be caught up comparing yourself (and always falling short), and maybe then buying things to try to make…
INSIDE OUT: Why Sadness Matters Especially After Trauma

INSIDE OUT: Why Sadness Matters, Especially After Trauma

Sadness matters. Especially after trauma. Every feeling matters—all the time. Feelings are normal and human. We all have them. Yet, do you – Fight them? Hide them? Feel Shame about them? Want to crawl under a table if they show? Peter Doctor’s Inside Out isn’t just a children’s movie. It’s for everyone who struggles with…
Why Most Adults Who Suffered Childhood Trauma Are Still Suffering

Why Most Adults Who Suffered Childhood Trauma Are Still Suffering

Adults suffering childhood trauma is all too common, even if you thought you got over it. You grew up. Did the best you could and “moved on.” But, you’ve had a lot of struggles. You’ve suffered anxiety. You don’t feel lovable. And, you haven’t been able to find love that works. You’re afraid of wanting…
Repressed Childhood Trauma in Adults 9 Signs of

9 Signs of Repressed Childhood Trauma in Adults & What To Do About It

Do you think you might have childhood trauma? Something’s been nagging at you. You can’t remember anything specific, but you’ve been wondering about it. You’ve heard about repressed childhood trauma in adults. What is that exactly? Do you have it? How could you find out? That’s a tough question If you did suffer trauma in…
6 Ways Abandonment as A Child Affects You Healing Means a Place to Grieve

6 Ways Abandonment
As A Child Affects You
Healing Means a Place to Grieve

Did you suffer abandonment as a child? Were you neglected? The child of divorce. In foster care. Or left to figure things out on your own? If so, you may still be suffering the effects. It’s very likely that you have abandonment trauma and don’t know it. This can go on for years. It’s never…
Dealing With Grief? How To Stop Feeling Hopeless

Feelings of Hopelessness? That’s Not A Necessary Part of Grief

You’ve lost someone and now you’re struggling with feelings of hopelessness about the future and finding love again. And, on top of that, it’s been a really, really hard few years. The pandemic, its isolation, and all of the changes in the world itself have heaped even more grief and sadness on top of losing…
4 Ways Being With A Narcissist Hurts Your Self-Esteem & How To Get It Back

How Do You Get Over a Narcissist
& Get Your Self-Esteem Back?

Do you think you’re in a relationship with a narcissist? Here’s what you need to know about how dating a narcissist changes you and very likely has hurt your self-esteem: Narcissists draw you in with their charm and compliments. But what do you do now that you’re living with constant hurt, deprivation, confusion, and feeling…