childhood trauma

Fear of More Loss Brings Disconnection from the film HIS THREE DAUGHTERS

Fear of More Loss Brings Disconnection from the film HIS THREE DAUGHTERS

When you’ve already lost too much and live in fear of more loss, that can make you disconnect. This is where we find the three sisters in Azazel Jacobs‘s His Three Daughters. Disconnected. They each have a method of disconnection and each has her reasons. But disconnection is lonely and creates more loss, even if…
Man Versus Bear: Women's Traumas, Shattered Trust & Why The Bear Wins

MAN Versus BEAR? Women’s Traumas, Shattered Trust & Why The Bear Wins

Man Versus Bear went viral. Even though a controversy rages, let’s be clear about why the Bear wins. The Bear gets the vote because of the past traumas and shattered trust of too many women. Those women have experienced childhood trauma, physical abuse, sexual abuse, and later sexual traumas, mostly perpetrated by a man that…
INSIDE OUT: Why Sadness Matters Especially After Trauma

INSIDE OUT: Why Sadness Matters, Especially After Trauma

Sadness matters. Especially after trauma. Every feeling matters—all the time. Feelings are normal and human. We all have them. Yet, do you – Fight them? Hide them? Feel Shame about them? Want to crawl under a table if they show? Peter Doctor’s Inside Out isn’t just a children’s movie. It’s for everyone who struggles with…
Why Most Adults Who Suffered Childhood Trauma Are Still Suffering

Why Most Adults Who Suffered Childhood Trauma Are Still Suffering

Adults suffering childhood trauma is all too common, even if you thought you got over it. You grew up. Did the best you could and “moved on.” But, you’ve had a lot of struggles. You’ve suffered anxiety. You don’t feel lovable. And, you haven’t been able to find love that works. You’re afraid of wanting…
Repressed Childhood Trauma in Adults 9 Signs of

9 Signs of Repressed Childhood Trauma in Adults & What To Do About It

Do you think you might have childhood trauma? Something’s been nagging at you. You can’t remember anything specific, but you’ve been wondering about it. You’ve heard about repressed childhood trauma in adults. What is that exactly? Do you have it? How could you find out? That’s a tough question If you did suffer trauma in…
6 Ways Abandonment as A Child Affects You Healing Means a Place to Grieve

6 Ways Abandonment
As A Child Affects You
Healing Means a Place to Grieve

Did you suffer abandonment as a child? Were you neglected? The child of divorce. In foster care. Or left to figure things out on your own? If so, you may still be suffering the effects. It’s very likely that you have abandonment trauma and don’t know it. This can go on for years. It’s never…
Afraid of Love? Normal Fear or Philophobia?

AFRAID OF LOVE?
Normal Fears or Philophobia?

Do you have Philophobia? Are you wondering what that is? Ask yourself these questions: Are you afraid of love? Making excuses not to get too close? Are you in and out, often pushing someone away? Do you tell yourself you’re satisfied with only casual sex? Did you know that if your fear of love is…
Are You Scared to Speak Out? Here’s How to Find Your Voice

Are You Scared to Speak Out?
Here’s How to Find Your Voice

Are you scared to speak out? That’s not unusual if you live with “shoulds” or “should not’s” that are stopping you inside your mind. But, even so, it’s not impossible to find your voice. However, it does take some courage and understanding. So, here’s how. Yes, people all over the country are speaking out and…
How Childhood Trauma Increases Germaphobia in COVID-19 Ways to Understand & Defeat Your Fears

COVID-19 Germaphobia
& Childhood Trauma
Ways To Defeat Your Fears

Do you have COVID-19 germaphobia? Are you very anxious about invisible germs? Here are things that can help. Even if you weren’t germaphobic or hypochondriacal before, these fears can take over in the dangerous situation we’re all in during COVID-19. But how much danger is there and exactly where? One thing is true. There are…